Ladies you must have been wondering why men cheat, even when you feel your doing everything right. here are a few pointers on why men cheat, so girls get your pen and jotters and take note
1 Some men cheat because they are bored and tired of the same marriage routine everyday, so they tend to go outside to find the fun somewhere else, ladies try and spice up your relationship or marriage, do different things each day, do things he least expect you to do, be spontaneous, some ladies might be working class and might not have time to do this each day, at least try and change your routine every two weeks ..... WOW your man
2. Men like to experiment sexually, so ladies be open with your man, ask him what new sex position he will like to try, don't feel shy to ask him, cause some men might not wanna tell their partners a naughty sex position they will wanna try cause of the fear of thinking he has tired it somewhere else and want to do it on you, while some men might feel cause they saw that position on a porn movie or so, it will be belittling to try it on their wives or girl friend, so ladies make him feel comfortable ti discuss all those nasty things with you. so he doesn't go trying it outside.
3. Okay lets be honest some men cheat because they have partners who cheat too. ladies if you want your relationship to work and you feel his the one, please dis engage your self from any person or thing that will make you go astray, men are very observant though some times they might act like they are ignorant. once a man notices his partner is a cheat, it doesn't take long for them to realize they can cheat on your also, some men are so vindictive that they might wanna cheat and let you catch them in the act, so you can be hurt too. so ladies be careful and make wise choices
4 Some men who cheat are emotionally Dissatisfied
women cause your a working class lady doesn't mean you should forget to complement your partner, make him feel appreciated, tell him those silly things he needs to hear, don't be to busy for you partner, men are egoistic and like to be complimented at every single thing, when there is no one there to make them feel needed they tend to look for that attention some where else, these men end u cheating with someone at work maybe a junior colleague or a boss, someone that compliments them daily on their achievements, so please women never be too busy for your man, if you want him to stick around
5 Finally and the most confusing about men, men simply cheat because they can, some men don't even need a reason to cheat, there partners might be the complete package, yet he just feels a need to cheat, some men love their partners a lot and yet still find them selves cheating. this is something that is inevitable for them, these men lack the ability to control their libido. i personal am still trying to figure out why a man can cheat on his partner when she is the full package, when i figure that out i will surely re post this..
ladies i hope this few pointers ends your confusion a bit, so instead of blaming yourself for his cheating habit, sit down for a minute and try and figure out which category your relationship falls under and fix it, if you really love him and want it to work.
Why Ladies Cheat In Relationship
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Why do women cheat?
ReplyDeletemrs adaku, XSD will provide an answer to that soon.
Delete@ enyinne john, my man falls into category 5, what do i do
ReplyDeleteokay, firstly ask your self two honest questions
Delete1. do you really love him
2. do you think he can change
when your done, if your answer is negative please break up and move on immediately, but if +ve stay with your man and help him through it
Thank You @ enyinne john.
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