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Unintentional testing:
    Be mindful that women will often times do or say things which unintentionally make you look bad: such as deterring you from looking like the REAL GUY, stealing control of the meta-frame from you, or taking the lead from you. The problem is that if you let a woman do this, even if it is unintentional, she will look at you differently and usually not for the better.

Women interrupting you:
    A subtle example of this is when a woman interrupts you. Many of us have experienced talking to a woman when all of the sudden she innocuously interrupts us (maybe it was because of her bad social etiquette, I don't know?). A woman doing this once or twice is no big deal, but more than this can cause her to judge you as a man who is unassertive, weak, and cannot make his point. Definitely a bad thing.

Doing things for attention:
      Another example of Unintentional testing is when a woman innocuously does something for attention such as, throw a temper tantrum, or try to make you jealous. She might be doing these things because she is seeking attention. But by you giving into them, you are putting yourself at risk for being judged by her as a man who is not the REAL MAN (a man who seeks her validation), a man who is not in control of the meta-frame, and cannot take a strong lead. These are all bad things, which you need to be aware of.

Bullshit insecurities:
    Another important case of this is falling victim to some women's bullshit insecurities. These range from preposterous things such as women getting angry that you don't call them every five minutes to them accusing you of flirting with every girl you come into contact with to them getting upset that you do not tell them that you love them every five seconds to them needing to know where you are at all times. One of the most common forms of bullshit insecurities are when women use conditionals: such as, 'If you really cared, then you would do/say this' or 'If you really cared, then you wouldn't do/say that'.

     Another form of bullshit insecurities is when a woman is incessantly fishing for validation. Have you ever had a woman keep asking if you thought she was fat or if she was as pretty as some other woman? Well, I know l have. I also now know that these were irrational bouts of a woman feeling insecure. What do all these behaviors have in common? They spring from a woman's insecurities. I think most of us on some level know when women are doing this and if you didn't, now because of this my article, you will. Put in better words, most guys will put up with this kind of behavior knowing that it is total bullshit, but wanting to appease her. The problem is that man women know that they are acting stupid and insecure and will negatively judge a man who puts up with their bullshit.

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