Great way of making a woman so emotional That she is forced to chase you.

Firstly, let’s look at my own view of what “Pushing & Pulling" means. because we will be seeing it as we are reading this article.

Pushing is to push the girl away from you.

Pulling is to pull the girl into you.

Pushing is as well closer to pain, while Pulling is also closer to pleasure.
Pushing is at least, if not more than, as important as Pulling. This is because, every time you use Pushing you create a space to use Pulling. Often times, the larger the space that you create from Pushing, the more emotionally intense and pleasurable it will be when you are Pulling her back into you.
Put in even better words, all Pulling should psychologically flow into Pushing and all Pushing should psychologically flow into Pulling. When Pushing & Pulling is executed correctly, it will have a powerful twofold psychological effect on women. Firstly, it will get them so emotionally charged that they will be compelled to chase you. This can range from them wanting your validation to them sexually trying to pursue you. Two is that Pushing & Pulling is a form of sending mixed signals. Put in other words, by Pushing a woman away from you, and then Pulling her back in, you keep her guessing about what her status is with you, and what you are going to do next. This is unpredictable and keeps her in suspense. women will find this to be very attractive and exciting.

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Now that you guys have an understanding of Pushing & Pulling let’s take a look at two different kinds of Pushing & Pulling: guilty conscience, emotional roller coaster

The Guilty conscience:
If I may ask you guys a question. Have you ever had a girl tease you: Get you really turned on and make you think that she was interested in you, and then once you made a move on her, she freaked out, accusing you of being some sort of pervert? Now i am sure on a rational level you were thinking, I will never talk to this girl again. But on an emotional level you were frustrated as hell. And her pushing you away only made you want her more, right?
So what was going on?

She was pulling you in by provoking you to make a move on her. Then she pushed you away by making you feel guilty for making a move on her. Now the great news is that we can use this exact tactic on women because it is just as powerful when we use it on them--and oddly enough, most women love it when we do this.

So the basic idea is to pull them in by making them feel an emotion or do an action, and then push them away by making them feel guilty about it. So, since some girls are so good at using the 'guilty conscience' tactic, let’s look at some examples of some of the things they do. One, which we already went over that they use all the time, is making a guy think that they are interested in hooking up and then accusing him of being too forward. This really makes men frustrated, yet often times gets them so emotionally charged that they will try even harder. Put in other words, they begin to chase the woman.

Another one that some women use is making a guy think that they are interested in a 'more than friends' relationship with them. The guy will often times end up taking the girl out to fancy restaurants, buying her presents, and overall, spending lots of money on her. Then when the guy starts to hint at wanting something with the girl, she might giggle and say, "how cute, you thought there was something between us...you know we are just friends, but l have the perfect girl to set you up with...you guys are going to make the cutest couple". Or they might say, "You are like my little brother...please don't talk that way to me...I am starting to get creeped out".

Another thing that some women have been known to do is to willingly have sex with a guy, and then afterwards, make him think that he used her or forced her into it and that he owes her something in return. These examples are very powerful and great food for thought. By now you should have some ideas on how to use the 'guilty conscience' tactic on women.
Let’s look at some examples we can use on women.

Guilty pursuer:
Here, I will imply to a woman that we should get together. If she bites the bait, so to speak, and suggests that she and l should get together, I might say something such as: 'I hope you don't think there is anything between us. I wouldn't want it to hurt our friendship.' we just met and you are already trying to ask me out, that's a little creepy'. This is great because here l am provoking them to react in a certain way, and then making them feel guilty about it (evil, yes, but very powerful). Moving on.

The guilty kiss (powerful):
Another great thing to do when a girl is into you is to grab her really close to you like you are about to kiss her and then say, "I hope you weren't trying to kiss me. You are like my little sister, and l am hoping that you are not trying to get all incest on me"...Then after she thinks you are serious, grab her close to you and kiss her. Since the kiss will be preceded by you creating a space in virtue of pushing her away (finding reason not to kiss her), the kiss will be intensified. Guys, this is a great way of making a woman so emotional that she is compelled to chase you. Also, women love this because it is unpredictable, and keeps them in suspense.

The Emotional roller coaster:
Another type of Pushing & Pulling is what I call the "emotional roller coaster". This is when you pull a woman into you by making her feel a certain emotion towards something or some situation. Then you push her away by making her feel the exact opposite emotion towards that same thing or situation. And then you pull her back into you by making her feel that original emotion again towards that thing. This is like putting women's intrigue on Steroid--very powerful!

To get an idea of this, think of soap operas, which women love. They use this exact psychological mechanism to keep women intrigued/increase her interest in you year after year. That's why these stupid soap operas are still on the air. In the soaps there is always the girl that seems nice and innocent who everyone begins to feel sorry for, and just at the point that everyone feels sorry for her, the truth comes out: she is a heartless vixen. Or there is the really hard working handsome guy who has been through many hardships. Just when all of the female watchers begin to think he is a really good guy, they find out that he is a womanizer and a wife beater. The point is that these soap opera writers have a deep understanding of this psychological principle and are aware of women's need for drama and suspense. Put in other words, if done in the right way, women enjoy being taken on an emotional roller coaster.

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