Best way to flow with a girl (To avoid story that touch)

Using A Storytelling Technique ->

Displaying instead of parading:
Most men fuck up when telling stories because they come across as bragging, which many women view as trying too hard. As l said earlier, women view this as men parading themselves with the hope that the woman will be impressed. In other words, this is a form of courting or trying to get women to like them.

Very bad!

What we want to do is to display stories aspects of ourselves, which potentially will increase our being the REAL GUY to women. But we want to do this without parading/overt bragging or parading very little. The way to do this is to never make it obvious to a girl that the goal of your story is to parade--or overtly brag about something. Instead make it seem like the point of your stories is to talk about things that are trivial, silly, and childish. Then you can incorporate into your stories, in a subtle way, things that might increase your being the REAL GUY with her. Now she will not always bite the bait to speak. But that's no loss, because even if the thing you incorporated into your story does not increase your being the REAL GUY in her eyes, it will not decrees it. Reason being, she will still not be able to peg you as someone who was parading or trying to impress her. This really works great, and you will almost never be pegged as bragging or trying too hard. One of my favorite stories for displaying Flow as a REAL GUY is this one.

Adventures in bus travel in Abuja:
"Sometimes we think we are not going to like something, but end up loving it. For example, I took a bus from east to Abuja. When getting close to Abuja, the police at the checkpoint came by to check my passport. Then a currency exchange guy asked me if l wanted to exchange my Dollar for naira--the currency in Nigeria. I told him, 'no'--reason being, ATM's have the best exchange rate. So, a few minutes later, that police came back. They asked to see my passport again. I gave it to them. Then l began to get a bit worried when they refused to give it back to me. Since they did not speak English, they signaled me to come with them. They took me to the back of the bus and started searching me. They kept speaking in Yoruba to me, but l did not understand. So, they brought the currency exchange guy over and he explained to me that the police have decided that l had committed some sort of crime but he did not know how to say it in English. He told me that I would need to pay him two thousand, and that they would not accept Dollars. Thus, I was forced to exchange my money into Naira. At this point l was thinking: this Abuja is run by a bunch of Mafia Anarchists—I am going to hate my stay in Abuja. But l was wrong. My stay in Abuja ended up being one of the most memorable times in my life." Now in this story l am subtly displaying that l have traveled to better places without overtly parading it.

Review:
Storytelling is an important skill for displaying being the REAL GUY. When telling stories, always keep the tone light, shallow, and childish. Always use lots of girl humor. Humor in these types of stories always have certain rhythm and flow to them. It is important to know how to transition into stories. Two great ways to transition are by telling the girl that she reminds you of someone or by making a philosophical point. When telling stories always be sure to display REAL GUY without parading it.

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