Must Read: Chick Tests and Frames

           Believe me, am telling you what I have experienced back then and still experiencing it now from my woman. I know some of you are idealists and want to believe that women don't test men. But trust me; I have a lot of experience to back up the fact that most women do test in some way especially young ones

However, not being aware and not knowing how to reframe CHICK TESTS and CHICK FRAMES will dramatically halter your potential sex life. Don’t say that xseduct didn’t tell you, so read till end and drop your comment or ask any query.

Like seriously, am going to teach you how to both recognize and reframe CHICK TESTS and CHICK FRAMES

THERE ARE THREE TYPES OF CHICK TEST
1. Chick/Women intentionally doing something to get a reaction out of you and then judging that reaction.
2. Women unintentionally doing something that gets a reaction out of you and then judging that reaction.
3. Women judging something you do and/or say.

ONE: INTENTIONAL TESTING
           Am going to summarize this, and then continue some other time.
I think one of the main motives for women intentionally testing us men is to figure out if we really possess the attributes of a man who is the REAL GUY. They use to screen us guys.

I think that when a woman first meets a man, three attributes that she often intentionally tests for are: being the REAL GUY, in control of the meta-frame, and able to take a strong lead (note: controlling the meta-frame and taking a strong lead are close cousins).

Intentional chick tests to see if you are the REAL GUY:
             Most Women will traditionally do all sorts of things to try to INTENTIONALLY find out if a man is really the Real Guy. Now obviously a man who is rich or good looking or famous is less likely to be tested as much as a man who does not have these things. However, every guy who has been with a lot of women no matter how good looking or famous he is has experienced intentional chick tests in some form. Women have been known to do stuff, such as: get men to buy them drinks, try to make men jealous by flirting with other guys, ask men to hold something of theirs while they go to the bathroom, make men cancel their current plans to come see them, and purposely throwing temper tantrums to see if they can get their way.
          Sometimes really young or shallow women will go so far to tell a man that he is too bald or too fat or too young or too old or too poor for her. The sad thing is that most guys do not even realize that they are being tested. And instead of proactively reframing the Intentional chick test, they either turn into ass kissing wimps, or get defensive and act insecure, or start having doubts about being the REAL GUY. All of these are detrimental ways of handling intentional chick tests. Reason being, they all are buying into the meta-frame that the woman is now a man over the guy and that the man is trying to get her validation.

Intentional chick tests to see if you are in control of the meta-frame and if you can maintain a strong lead:
         Be careful, Women will often intentionally test a man to see if he is in control of the meta-frame, and can maintain a strong lead. Remember, controlling the meta-frame is about you being the one to define the underlying meaning of the interaction, not her. This is what taking a strong lead all is about. Women will intentionally do things to take control of the meta-frame by trying to define the underlying meaning of the interaction. For example, women have been known to do things such as: telling you that you are not going to get any from them, or that you do not have a chance with them, or interrupting you, or talking about problems they are having with their boyfriends, or not showing interest in you. Be aware guys.
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