While we all have different physical preferences, these tactics will greatly help you to maximize your "assets" and in most cases override another person's basic idea of what he finds attractive. How can this be done? Have you ever dated someone who was not even close to your type? Why'd you do it? Because he or she enacted these laws, most likely unwittingly, and you found that person simply irresistible. Use the techniques in this article for maximum success. Numerous studies as well as real life show us that the more we like someone the more attractive we tend to find him or her. Although the tactics outlined below are especially designed for romantic interest, it should be said that we rarely find attractive those whom we do not like. So, fold into your game plan the tactics in the preceding article to give you an unstoppable overall strategy.
1. EMOTION AROUSAL
This single tactic will be responsible for getting you more dates than any hairstyle or outfit or high-powered job ever will. It is a foundation of human behaviour that when our body produces adrenaline, feelings of attraction to those present and sexual desires often result. Adrenaline, produced through any state of heightened arousal fear, excitement, exercise, or whatever generates and intensifies passionate feelings. (This assumes that attraction exists in some form, at some level.)
Anytime a person is aroused, such as with scary movies, amusement park rides, or even physical exercise, his arousal will in part be attributed to whomever he is with. In effect, there is transference of state where the excitement he feels gets unconsciously translated into sexual desire and arousal. The next time you see a couple who appears to be "aesthetically" mismatched, ask where they met. Chances are good that they met under circumstances where arousal was high . . . maybe at the gym or while one person (the better-looking of the two) was apprehensive, nervous, or excited about something. It's for this very fact that psychologists are becoming increasingly disturbed by the trend in video games, movies, and television of associating violence and sex. The pairing of these two stimuli sexual content and violence can generate enhanced arousal toward violence and aggressive tendencies in sexual encounters.
2. WALKING STYLES
Youth is often deemed to be a factor of physical attractiveness. But the good news is that you don't necessarily have to look young but merely appear young. Even something as seemingly innocuous as posture and how a person walks plays a powerful role in how youthful we judge him. Walking styles definitely influence physical attractiveness. People react more favourably to those whose walking style seems youthful than to those who seem elderly, regardless of the actual age or sex (Montepare and Zebrowitz-McArthur, 1988). What exactly determines youthful posture and gait? Flexibility. Observe a small child, and note how flexible she is in comparison to an elderly person. Yoga will greatly improve your flexibility and will make a dramatic difference in your overall posture, walking style, and how attractive others perceive you to be. There are several popular theories on why we are attracted to youth. The most widely accepted is that this is a biological instinct courtesy of our ancestors. Women who have youthful features are likely to be of childbearing age considered a desirable state by men. Men who are young are perceived as more virile, considered as good protectors and providers by women for them and their children.
3. GAZING INTO A PERSON'S EYES
Did you know that gazing into a person s eyes can actually make the individual fall in love with you? That's the conclusion of numerous studies on attraction and romantic love. In one particular experiment, two opposite-sex strangers were asked to gaze into each others eyes for two minutes. This study concluded that the act of simply looking into another's eyes for only a few moments was enough for them to produce passionate feelings for each other (Kellerman, Lewis, and Laird, 1989). To make use of this tactic when you have a conversation with this person, look him directly in the eyes when speaking and listening. Most of the time we sort of gaze generally at a person's face or divert our glance when in conversation. By looking into his eyes, while speaking with him, you engage this psychological phenomenon without being obvious.
So practice those major tactics and you are good to go. If you value what you just read, kindly share with us how you feel through our comment box.
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