Men Who Are Successful With Women either in Relationship or in Marriage

              The Lover and Provider Personalities

      The Eight Personality Types of Men Who Are Successful with Women After studying women, relationships, evolution, and psychology for the last several years, I've come across some startling information.

I now believe that women have two kinds of 'mental programs' when it comes to men. And when I say the word 'programs' I mean it. Specifically, I mean that they are programmed from birth by their genes, as well as by society to respond UNCONSCIOUSLY to two different types of men that fit their mental pictures.

      In psychology, the term 'archetype' is used to describe a mental structure that operates on an unconscious level. I'm going to use the term 'personality types' here to describe this concept.
In a nutshell:
? I believe that women respond AUTOMATICALLY to certain men, and that most of this response is based on the man's personality, communication, achievements, etc. -not his looks (don't get me wrong. Looks are important. But they're not nearly as important in the long run as personality).
? Women are usually not consciously aware of why they react to these Personality Types.
? These personalities can be divided into two basic groups: The Lover and The Provider.
? Women respond to Lover personalities by having them on bed with them immediately.
? Women respond to Provider personalities by withholding having them on bed in order to make the man prove that he will stay loyal for the long run.
? There are also several 'unsuccessful' personality types. By unsuccessful, I mean that these types are not attractive to most women. (If you're one of these, don't take it personally. Try something different. I did.)

    These are the two mental roads - Lover (short term) or Provider (long term). If you get on one road, it's hard to get off. So choose wisely. For each of the two successful Personality Types, there are four variations. These are created by combining the factors of 'Dominant vs. Submissive' with the basic personalities. This brings the total to eight subtypes that are successful with women.
    Here's a little chart that shows the personality types. There are two personality types in each box. For instance, the 'Bad Boy' and the 'Adventurer' are in one box, but they are separate personalities.

And here's a short description of the eight personalities with the appeals that they have to women:

Lover Personalities:
? Bad Boy (danger): someone who's dangerous and thrilling to be around.
? Adventurer (fun): Someone who's fun and exciting to be around.
? Seducer (having you on bed): Someone who is sensual and sexy and makes her feel sexy.
? Artist (Musician, Poet) (emotion): Someone who moves her emotions and is enigmatic and complex.

Provider Personalities:
? Successful Guy (means): Someone who provides a great lifestyle and stability.
? Daddy (control): Someone who tells her what to do and controls her.
? Regular Guy (loyalty): Someone who is down to earth, loyal and stable.
? Ass Kissing Guy (her boy): Someone who gives her whatever she wants.

Most of the women in this world will respond to ALL of these personalities to one extent or another.
Now, if you read what other authors say about how to be successful with women, they will usually teach you only what works for THEM. I'm guilty of this very thing in my book. I try to give a broader perspective on the topic, because I believe that even though something doesn't work for ME doesn't mean that it doesn't work!

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