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Self confidence building

What is Confidence?
               Confident people demonstrate a high level of certainty. They have an abundance of self-belief that they are strong in their abilities in a particular field or in various situations. Confidence is nothing more than the way they see themselves and what they tell themselves. It is all about what they think and feel. There may have been times when you have felt a level of confidence when you were engaged in an activity that you are naturally good at. At those times, you too, would have displayed a high level of certainty, which is a form of confidence. In effect, confidence is a tangible and definite feeling that people experience within themselves; it is an emotional feeling that drives the belief that they can do what they want.

Having confidence is the crux that allows you to achieve your true potential in whatever situation in your life, including your relationships, your work or career, your finances, your self-image and self-esteem you may have developed a feeling of confidence in certain activities, such as driving a car, being a parent or managing your team. However, there may have been other circumstances where you found that you felt less confident, where you would have liked more confidence

One of xseduct viewer by the name Nancy emailed me on how she changed her self-identity from being scared in social situations, to being confident and at ease in any social setting by changing only one small thing in her life. As Nancy says, “I used to really hate going to work social events and family get-togethers; especially my husband’s family Sunny. Even though I’d been married for over ten years and knew his family for a long time, I still felt awkward and out of place. In both situations it seemed to me that everyone was laughing and having a great time, easily mixing and mingling with both people they know and didn’t know. Oh, how I envied them! I always felt embarrassed and uncomfortable in these situations. I used to shake nervously as I stood quietly in a corner somewhere, on my own. My cramped uneasiness probably showed from the tense look on my face. I would look down and avoid catching someone’s eye. At work events, I would stick close to someone I knew well for the duration of the event, subtly looking at my watch from time to time counting the minutes until it would be appropriate for me to leave and go home. When I learned about confidence building methods and how one small change can have a knock on effect on many areas in my life, I decided to have a go and I do one thing differently that I haven’t done before. I decided to walk into a social situation alone, with a magnetic and contagious smile on my face, shoulders upright and my head held high and to make eye contact and say, “Hello” to anyone who so much as looked over at me. I would simply pretend that I am feeling very confident.

I had no idea what impact this small change in my expression and posture would have on my experience. But I can tell you that I have never been the same since. I now easily approach people and strike up a conversation. And, likewise, people come over and talk to me. I smile and laugh more as the conversation grows. This makes me feel happier, more confident and more at ease. Since then, I have used this simple method of making one little change in a single area of my life to initiate lots of other changes. This has really given me a confidence boosted in so many ways, and in so many areas that I feel like a changed person already.”

There are seven steps you have to consider or know to be able to stand and have your own 100% confidence. Read step one here and try to answer the following questions under it


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