NIgerian comedian, Ali Baba in his advice to ladies today said, 'if as a woman , you're not financially dependent, marriage shouldn't be your priority'.
He went onto mention , 'that era of being financially hooked in to a person expired a few years ago. Sadly, only a few women started late to understand that they also had the equal personal requirements to form themselves financially independent'.
Many ofthe lads who also believed that ladies shouldn't be financially independent were also everywhere. And with time, many of these men, where in places of authority and economic positions of influence. Such men also began to see that a lot of women were a threat to their masculinity. And did everything to dam them.
sort of a woman can't bail anyone arrested. Women can't rent properties. They did not accept that ladies were capable of pulling their weight when shouldered with responsibilities, BUT DID BETTER THAN the lads , who went head to go with them. And still play their roles as women.
in class , you'll remember, if you would like to be honest, there have been ladies who were constantly in 1st to 10th positions. And there have been heavy men, who were unashamedly within the 30th to 32nd positions. That was the beginning . It became more glaring that ladies are often equally smart and even smarter. Many of those men, were in any case being taught by women, as teachers, lecturers and professors.
So, gradually, the thought ofa lady being hooked in to any man started fading. Especially when the lads started having them as bosses, and learning under their feet. Humbling. However, it must be further emphasised in these day and age, that the times of a lady being DEPENDENT are gone. Or nearly gone.
So, it's clear, that financial instabilityof girls is that the major reason many wpmen aren't getting treated like they ought to . It turns relationships to cash and carry or business transactions. It also then makes many men believe, that financial independence will deduct their power. Only WEAK MEN think like that. and ladies who think they need to enter a relationship because its their only thanks to financial stability are those who empower them.
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